I am getting ready to move to an independent living facility in Michigan and have spent the last three weeks giving nice things to charity and throwing others in the garbage. Living in 9 different residences in 5 different states over the years has given me plenty of practice with the process of letting go of objects. Early moves when I was in my twenties taught me to think about getting rid of belongings that my husband and I never took out of boxes since the previous move.
I am also motivated to let go by the high cost of facilities for old people. I used graph paper to plot the small apartment I can afford and put my furniture in it. I learned I have to get rid of more than I anticipated. Every piece of furniture has to do double duty. For example, my small kitchen table will be used as a desk and a breakfast table. My small bookcase will hold belongings I used to keep in the big buffet below and a big roll top desk. My radio/CD player will sit on top of the bookcase.The payback for a stressful move is that I will be in a safe environment and be closer to my family. homeafterstroke.blogspot.com
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